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Hi Fellas, I don't if have all been thru this but theez hi - school luv thats most cases same age love.
U reach a point n see theez no future coz the lads r always not ready to marry/settle coz they r nor established yet but the gals r on pressure to have a man coz they r fearing to loose value (depreciate).
This stage is after uni normally (23-27yrs).
What wld u do? Ladies n Gents in this situation?
Carry on or quit?
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Jul 6, 2008
8:45 AM
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carry on and eventually become fcuk-buddies
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Jul 6, 2008
1:45 PM
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this is interesting, simz uve not discovered that ur a Shrink!...lolz....lookz lyk yo readin ma mindz...am quiting
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Jul 6, 2008
3:47 PM
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Carol, Phiona wat do u have in mind when ur boo is not aba to settle and u r worried if ur fucking age
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Jul 6, 2008
10:46 PM
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SPM KK what if she - keeps telling you to start travelling to her vilage? if she -starts callin u her husband? -sincerely loosing value? what i called Depreciation previously?
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Jul 7, 2008
6:08 AM
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...then show her some 'tough love' and lay your cards on the table. Tell her "you are a nice b1tch and i like fcuking you but I do not want a relationship with you"
=== Original Message ===
SPM KK what if she - keeps telling you to start travelling to her vilage? if she -starts callin u her husband? -sincerely loosing value? what i called Depreciation previously?
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Jul 7, 2008
6:16 AM
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damn......am already at that stage......if my man aint down to settle down with me, then i ditch him.....coz there is no purpose in a no-end relationship......... its shitty dating someone with no purpose or future......
thank God my man is reasonable.........
in life and at my age, i cant afford to waste time fucking someone with no plans for the future. there is no absolute reason y a man wouldnt want to settle down!!!
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Jul 8, 2008
6:27 AM
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Carol when u r at uni U most likely have a chance of dating or loving a school mate whic is fantastic at that stage, but when u both graduate and 3 or even more years later u start realiszing ur love is young as in thinking (gals case ) or ur love is getting too old (boys case, that is what I am toking aba
Its like "it ok at the beginning but when u carry on u realize its not..."
I don't know what stage u r in, but wld u throw out ur school lover out if u realise u r in this stage?
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Jul 8, 2008
6:47 AM
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Remember no one plans to waste ur time, its jas a fact of life, a stage of life that needs a decission.
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Jul 8, 2008
6:48 AM
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of course...........hmmmmmmm wen at uni? shit happens.........so many changes..........decisions too..........it depends on what both of us think at that stage after uni....i think?
its no clear tho...........
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Jul 8, 2008
6:51 AM
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