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I'll say one thing for myself that I never get boring. There are a lot of contradictions in my personality: deep and intense but also easygoing and light-hearted, silly and playful but mature, a bit crazy and slightly eccentric but also responsible, philosophical but also real and down-to-earth, intuitive and spontaneous but also a planner, sweet but sometimes very, very sarcastic, mild-mannered but also full of spice, quiet but strong and gutsy, organized but scattered, spiritual but sensual, argumentative but peaceful, a thinker but also a very physical person, understated but also a free spirit, tough but also tender-hearted, naughty and sometimes slightly outrageous but also very nice, sometimes controversial but also your guy-next-door, dynamic but also a bit conventional, a homebody but also very outdoorsy, absent-minded but passionate, mild but also very sassy when I'm in the mood, shy but bold, a realist but an optimist, a total klutz but very composed, purposeful but also open to advice from people I respect, calm but very impatient (when I want something I usually want it like yesterday), very focused but also very indecisive sometimes, serious when the occasion demands but also very fun-loving, so simple but oh-so-complex
I would definitely consider myself a people person, although I'm neither gregarious nor particularly outgoing. I love being with people, watching (not stalking) people, listening to (more than talking to, actually but not when they don't know when to shut their big mouths) people, interacting with people, and studying people; finding out who they are and what makes them tick. Most people's first impression of me is that I'm rather quiet and shy and to an extent they're right, but there's a lot more to me.
I am very creative and imaginative. I'm also a perfectionist. I like to do what I'm really good at and I like to be the best. This can be very bad because it means that when I discover I'm not too great at something, I tend not to stick with it.
I hate confrontation! It's one of my biggest flaws because I find myself taking a lot of crap from people sometimes, all because I want to avoid getting into a fight with them. I'm working on that, though!
There is a part of me that is intensely personal and a bit mysterious, that I like to keep under wraps and expose only to those who know me very well.
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