I'm a divorced father of 2 wonderful boys, ages 11 and 13. I am friends with my boys mother. I have my boys every other weekend and half the summer so while I am not looking for a mother for my boys (they have a good one), you must understand that sometimes, they will be around. If you have kids, that is great also, as long as they are OK with us. I am not your typical male. I like to cook and clean and take care of the kids to give my mate time to herself to do what she needs to do so that she will have the desire and the energy to spend time with me later. I am not a big sports fan, so you will not find me on a Saturday glued to the set, but have been known on occasion to take the kids to a hockey game. For the majority of my life I was very overweight. I weighed in at about 265 lbs with a 48" waist. When I turned 35, I changed all this. I work out daily for about 90 minutes. I am an amateur body builder and have 3 first place and 2 second place wins. I have also become a personal trainer and supplement my income with this. I am a senior programmer/analyst for a large company. I love to get out and do things. So if you enjoy an adventureous outing, going to movies, out to eat or simply sitting home and curling up to watch a video then, check me out. Right now, making a new friend and seeing where it goes works for me.

My kids, Bodybuilding, skiing, rollerblading

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