Be honest with yourself -Avoid temptation of false belief.
2.Face problems, do not avoid them-Growth comes through facing reality.
3.Widen your interests –Stretch youth mind by reading, conversation, listening.
4.Write out the problem- positive action depends on clear thinking, writing helps
5.Keep first things first- Focus on the main issue, Do not be confused by non-essentials
6.Do not oversimplify- if a problem is serious enough to bother you ,it is worth thinking over it seriously.
7.Get beyond fault finding people know what is wrong. They want to know what to know what to do about it,
8.Keep an open mind-Your solution may not be the best solution.
9.Retain your sense of hum our- Hum our can reduce prejudice and put things in order.
10.Develop insidht- listen for what the other person means. Not merely what he says,
11.Focus on the positive- Emphasise points of agreement while admitting differences,
THERE IS ONLY TWO THINGS IN LIFE
THAT IS MORE THAN PAINFUL THAN DEATH
ONE IS WHEN TRUE FRIENDS REMAINS SILENT
ANT OTHER IS WHEN YOU MISS THEM.